I never kiss her, I never hold her hand
In fact I diss her I’m a bolder man
I’mma pimp her, it’s over man ~ Jay Z

I wanted to know so I asked…

What makes a guy decide if he wants to get to know a chick vs. hit it and quit it?

 I received the following responses:

KI:  Lust. She might have qualities that appeal to his lust but not his emotions.  Read more...

 Why Love Hurts So Much

By Darrell Victor

One of life’s ironies is that your strength could be your weakness. Perhaps a source of happiness could also be a source of anguish. That is the nature of life. To expect that this could never be the case would be to reside happily in fool’s paradise. Love – in all its forms – emphasises this. It is the root of all relationships that we have with strangers or our loved ones.  Read more...

What is the significance of titles in a relationship?

While some may say that titles are only words used to describe or define your relationship to others, I feel that titles are important in helping us to define who we are to one another.  As of late, I am hearing too many bois proclaim not to believe in the use of titles in a relationship…they are not down with all the “boyfriend/girlfriend” mumbo-jumbo and believe that their actions should let us (women) know how they feel and what we mean to them.  Read more...

I am one to say that I do not date…

I meet a guy, we become friends, and then maybe we can see what develops from there…

Well, this approach has not worked too well for me these past couple of years.

I am not the type of chick to seek out a man…I just go about my day to day life…if I meet someone new, great, but I am not going to be the one to pursue anything beyond friendship.  Read more...

You know all the statistics.  There’s more than a 50% chance that you will divorce once married, and let us  not even analyze the probability that you will break up when the relationship becomes too hard.  We are programmed to get what we want when we want it, and when we don’t…we leave. 

Well, don’t we?  Read more...